Okay, we’re just going to say it. Condoms.

Not the most exciting conversation you’ll have today, but definitely one worth having.

It’s Sextember, and this years theme is free, easy, sorted, safe – and it’s all about condoms.

Whether you’re already having sex, thinking about it, dating, seeing someone, or just want to know what’s what, we thought it would be good to give you some info on what you actually need to know.

So… where do you get free condoms?

The INFO Shop!!

(you must have heard about the free purple bags right!?)

Up until your 26th birthday you can come in and get free condoms, plus advice and guidance around sex, relationships, contraception, STIs and pretty much anything else you might be wondering about.

And no, you won’t get a lecture.  You can just pop in, ask at the desk, have a quick chat, grab some condoms and get on with your day.

Easy! 🙂

Do condoms actually work?

Yep! when they’re used correctly, condoms are a really good way of reducing the risk of STIs and pregnancy.

The key bit is actually using them properly.

Before you use one:

• Check the expiry date!
• Make sure the packet isn’t damaged.
• Open it carefully, nobody needs a ripped condom before the fun has even started.
• Put it on before any genital contact.
• Use a new condom every time you have sex.
• Don’t use two condoms together.  Two condoms rubbing against each other = more chance of one breaking.
• Using lube? Make sure it’s compatible with your condom. Oil-based products can damage latex condoms.

Never used one before? It’s FINE! Don’t panic.

Seriously. Nobody is an expert the first time in knowing how to put a condom on.

If you’re unsure, ask the INFO Shop team. That’s literally what they’re there for! There’s no such thing as a stupid question.

“But what if it feels weird?”

You might need to try a different size, type or brand.

There isn’t a one-size-fits-all rule when it comes to condoms, and finding one that fits properly can make a massive difference.

And yes, comfort matters.

Sex shouldn’t be painful, uncomfortable or something you feel pressured into.

What about consent?

This one is important.

A condom isn’t consent.

Someone agreeing to sex doesn’t automatically mean they’re agreeing to everything. You can change your mind. Your partner can change their mind. You can stop at any point. If it’s not an enthusiastic yes, it’s a no, always check in with your partner.

Myth vs Fact

There is A LOT of stuff said about condoms online, between mates and probably in your group chat. So here’s some myths and facts for you!

❌ Myth: “You need two condoms for extra protection.”

✅ Fact: Nope. One condom, used correctly, is the way to go. Using two at the same time can create friction and make them more likely to break.

❌ Myth: “Condoms always ruin the mood.”

✅ Fact: They really don’t have to. Having them ready beforehand, finding one that fits comfortably and using lube can all help. Plus, knowing you’re protecting yourself can mean less stress afterwards.

❌ Myth: “You can tell if someone has an STI.”

✅ Fact: Not necessarily. Lots of STIs don’t cause obvious symptoms, so someone can have one and not know. Testing is the only way to know for sure.

❌ Myth: “If you’re on the pill, you don’t need condoms.”

✅ Fact: The contraceptive pill can help prevent pregnancy, but it doesn’t protect against STIs. Condoms can help reduce the risk of STIs.

❌ Myth: “If a condom breaks, there’s nothing you can do.”

✅ Fact: There are options. Depending on the situation, emergency contraception and STI testing may be appropriate. Get advice as soon as you can, you don’t have to work it all out yourself.

❌ Myth: “Asking for condoms is awkward.”

✅ Fact: Maybe for about five seconds. But asking is a lot less awkward than dealing with something you could have prevented. And honestly, looking after yourself and your partner is huge a green flag.

What if the condom breaks?

First things first: don’t panic.

Condoms can break or slip off, even when you’ve done everything right.

If it happens, there are options depending on the situation, including emergency contraception and STI testing.

The important thing is getting advice as soon as you can.

And, again, you can come to the INFO Shop for advice and guidance about what to do next.

No judgement or awkward interrogation. Youth Workers are there to help you.

Basically…

You don’t need to know everything about sex.

You don’t need to have everything figured out.

And you definitely don’t need to feel embarrassed about asking questions.

If you’re in Wrexham and want free condoms, advice or guidance, come and see the team at the INFO Shop, you can find us on Lambpit Street, Monday to Friday and our doors are open from 11:30am.

See you soon!